Friday, November 4, 2011

35 Weeks!

I can't believe I'm 35 weeks already!  I've never been pregnant this long before:). But I am definitely glad I am!  Starting on Monday,  I can deliver at Zeeland and therefore there would be a very high chance that our baby could come home from the hospital with us!  I'm not sure I'll know what to do with a baby in our hospital room and taking a baby home right away with us!  It'll be really nice though.  It's just crazy that each pregnancy keeps lasting longer--I don't know if it's the progesterone shots or just knowing to take it easier earlier and not working at all this pregnancy??  Who knows.  Guess I'll never know what factor(s) it was, but I'm grateful to be so far along!  And grateful to be so close to the end of bedrest:).  I was hoping my dr would take me off this week (since I swear he said he'd take me off around 35 weeks), but he is keeping me on until 36 1/2 weeks (Monday the 14th I'll be 36 weeks and 4 days).  I'm ready to be done with bedrest (although still uncomfortable in the same spot that's been bugging me since 29 weeks and makes it painful to stand for very long), but I know it's for the best for the baby to be as close to full term as possible, so I see why he's not taking me off until I'm almost full term.  He said as I approach 36 1/2 weeks, I can start doing more and more too.  I had an appointment on Wednesday and haven't hardly dilated more than I was the Friday before.  I'm like 50% effaced now and he said my cervix is a lot softer and the head is "right there" but not engaged yet, so who knows, maybe I'll be pregnant until 40 weeks:).  I'm hoping not quite that long!  Although it'd be handy to be able to run some errands and such b/f I have it.  So we will see:).  I get my last progesterone shot this weekend and that stays in your system for about a week or maybe a little more, so it'll be interesting to see how much after that I have this kid--if it's like a week later, then maybe the shots mixed with bedrest really did work??  I was having more painful contractions earlier this week, but apparently they aren't doing too much, so I guess this is what false labor/Braxton Hicks feel like--I'm just not used to them being "fake" :).  Just funny how each pregnancy sure can be different! 
This has felt like a VERY long time on bedrest, but we couldn't have done it without help from friends, family and our church family--we really appreciate the help we've gotten!! 

Sunday, October 30, 2011

Another Sunday Post

This is from this past week.  The kids enjoy coloring at this table, unfortunately Gibs also enjoys coloring on the walls, so we are working on that.  They now have a two crayon rule each and they need to keep them at the table otherwise Gibs will walk around the house with them and get crayon on who knows what else!  This table has worked out well though.  It was an end table we had downstairs, but when we had to move the desk out of the playroom (so that the playroom could then become Gibs' new room) there was no longer room for the table downstairs so upstairs it came and has worked out well.
Of course on one picture Gibs is smiling, and on the other, Layla is smiling nice.
 Jonathan and Maddy (and their mama) have been coming to help entertain  us and help do our laundry on Thursdays.  This is from this past Thursday--Gibs is doing his new thing where you tell him to say "cheese" and instead of saying "cheese" and smiling, he looks down and smirks--he knows he's being a stinker by not smiling!
 And again with the looking down and smirking...
This morning Joe planned on going to church with the kids but I woke up at 8:50 and seeing they have to leave for church at 9ish, they didn't make it.  Layla ended up waking up at 9 and Gibs woke up at 9:30 which is late for him.  They were both in bed by 8 (which is their normal bed time) and Layla had napped for a bit at 7 (in the car), so they must have been tired.  Instead of church, we had family devotion time this morning. 
 They both love building "garages" for their cars...
Here they are at lunch at Joe's parents' house today with Great-Grandma...
I'm 34 1/2 weeks now, which is where we had Gibs, so hopefully at least another week and a half would be nice.  We've made it this far, it'd be nice to make it to a point where Baby could come home with us.  This whole pregnancy I've really just hoped that we didn't have a Halloween baby (since it's sort of a weird birthday), so at least now that that's tomorrow, that seems unlikely.  I have an appointment on Wednesday and then my doctor will tell me for sure when I'm done with bedrest. 


Sunday, October 23, 2011

Sunday Morning

The kids had a few spare minutes to play before leaving for church this morning (which is rare--thankfully Layla woke us up at 8:15 since we have to leave for church at about 9) so I thought I'd get a quick pic of them in their church clothes.  I always think Gibs looks so handsome dressed up:) (and of course I think Layla looks cute too).  I think it's been saving time not having me have to get ready for church (since I obviously can't go being on bedrest).  I think we're really going to have a hard time making it out of the house by 9 with 3 kids.  At least for awhile, I'm sure the baby will be waking us up before 8:15:). 

Saturday, October 22, 2011

33 Weeks

I was 33 weeks on Wednesday, so we're getting closer to the end of bedrest (and closer to having Baby here)!   I had my 33 week appointment yesterday and I've progressed a bit, but since I'm 33 weeks, I'm not too far off from full term thankfully.  It'd be so great to have this baby close to full term and be able to take it home from the hospital with us (probably around 35/36 weeks it could come home with us if it was doing okay)!  I'm dilated to a 1 1/2 and 50% effaced.  So hopefully with staying on bedrest, I can keep baby in at least a few more weeks (or longer!).  I have Procardia now to take when my contractions get worse (I've always had some and sometimes it's hard for me to know what "a lot" is since I've always had some stretches during the day where they're 5 minutes apart, but my dr said if they're that close for over an hour,  I should take a pill).  I'll get my last shot aroun 35 1/2 weeks since that is when I will run out of my current vile of Progesterone.  Joe has it pretty down pat now:).  One thing kind of funny that we discovered at my appointment yesterday is that I've been using 3in needles instead of 1in (in length).  Apparently Meijer gave us the wrong ones.  My doctor said that 1 inchers would be fine for me, so apparently Joe's been stabbing into me further than need be:).  From what I can find online it seems that the Progesterone stays in you for at least a week after you stop that shots, so if our last one is at 35 1/2 weeks, that would mean having the Progesterone in me until 36 1/2-37 weeks.  My doctor said he'll probably take me off of bedrest around 35 weeks, only 2 more weeks! This baby has just been so uncomfortable how it's positioned or something, that I constantly have pain in the side of my uterus, that mixed with contractions makes it very uncomfortable to sit or stand.  So I'll be happy to be able to get out and do things and clean my house (and get ready for baby!), yet I'm not sure how much out and about I'll love doing either being in pain.  But it will still be nice to be able to have the option:).  My doctor is very happy to have made it now almost to 34 weeks, but we'll obviously try for further as that would be even better for the little guy/girl!  Oh, and the heartbeat was I think 153 which the doctor said it has been in the 150s about every appointment.  That is what some would say is a girl heartbeat, but I think that both my kids have had heartbeats around there, so who knows! :)   I really haven't had a feeling with this one like I had with the others. I was right with both of them, so I feel like I should know this time too.  But with both of them, I guessed what I wanted them to be and this time I really don't care what it is.  I think I would guess it's a girl.  Joe says girl too, but he was also wrong with both of our other kids:).  I THINK we have names now, so that's one less thing to worry about:). I told Joe I was going to order shirts with all the kids' initials on them, but he wasn't quite that sure on them:). 

Yesterday, the kids were both looking at our Disney pics (from this past Spring) on our blog and Layla mentioned something about going again and how the baby would be in my tummy and I told her that by the time we go to Disney again (b/c I don't even know when that will be!) the baby will not be in my tummy and that the baby will come with us.  She was so excited that the baby would be out of my tummy by then--I guess all this talk about praying to keep the baby in made her think it was still going to be a really long time before baby was out:).  She also right away started trying to think of what strollers we would bring:).  She's just like her mom:).  She said we'd take the double one we used last time for Gibs and the baby and she'd ride in the gravy one.  I didn't understand what she meant by "gravy one", but in the garage later when leaving for my appointment she pointed out the "gravy one"--she meant gray:).  Oh, one other word she mixed up the other day was that she was looking for the porkupine in the backyard and I didn't know what she was talking about, then she said something about it cutting the corn and I figured out that she meant the COMbine, not porkupine:).  Also, I found it cute that at lunch yesterday, after looking at Disney pictures, she added in her lunch prayer that she prayed that God be with us in Disney World in a few months. I said I was sorry, but it'll probably be a few years, not months:).  Gibs is also starting to love Disney and loves some of the characters and really loves the little Disney busses (like matchbox cars) that we have.  They also both still like watching Mickey, so hopefully Gibs will enjoy his upcoming Mickey birthday party. 

We also finally got Gibs' new room ready for him.  It needs some more decorations, but it's at least ready enough for him to sleep in (it was our playroom/office).  We aren't going to move him down there until I'm off of bedrest, since that would be more work for me having to go down to get him for naps and bedtime, but at least it's ready!  Hopefully he adjusts well to sleeping in his new room.  Speaking of adjusting, I'm surprised how well Layla has done with the whole bedrest thing.  I thought that maybe she'd be annoyed with the fact that Mommy can't go out and do things with her, but she's done really well with it and understands that I need to rest as much as I can.  Auntie Em is on bedrest also, so I think she maybe thinks it's normal for all pregnant people to be on bedrest.  Someone else recently stopped by to drop off some groceries for us (which we SO appreciate).  She's pregnant too, and when she left Layla asked why Paula wasn't on bedrest if she has a baby in her tummy too:).

Friday, October 14, 2011

Sickies and School

Wednesday morning Layla woke up saying her tummy hurt and she then napped for 2 hours (like from 9-11am) which is totally not normal for her--normally she doesn't nap at all.  And Gibs was up in the night a few times the night before just crying, which he hasn't cried that much in the night possibly ever.  He then woke up with a runny nose.  Gibs has been sleepy and grumpy on and off and after Layla's nap she said she felt much better.  Today she woke up again saying she didn't feel well and was coughing and he still has his cold so they watched tv a bit this morning on the couch.  He didn't last very long laying down and then seemed bored to be playing by himself:). After a bit of tv, Layla seemed much better too.  Last week Gibs was waking up at 7:30 some mornings (which if I give him books, he'll "read" until about 7:45 and then he will normally lay in bed with me until 8), but thankfully is back to 8 or slightly before now.  Layla now typically wakes up around 8:30 (it used to be 9, but often now, she's up before 9).  It'll be hard to adjust again to getting up in the night with a baby and then even after it sleeps through the night, the chances that one out of three kids is up early is probably pretty likely!  But then once they start school, I know our days of sleeping in will be gone too, so I might as well enjoy it while it lasts!
 On Tuesday, Joe took the day off to get some stuff done around the house (like get Gibson's room ready in the basement, although we got a long ways on Saturday thanks to Joe's parents' help!  We had to move a heavy desk out of there and such).  Joe could then bring  Layla to a preschool enrichment class at Holland Christian.  I didn't even realize they offered them until someone was dropping off a meal the other week and mentioned them.  They are for kids currently in a preschool or kids not going to preschool.  Since Layla isn't doing 3's preschool, I thought she'd really like this as a chance to go to school for the day.  Joe said she started to cry a little bit getting out of the car, but as soon as she saw her locker and classroom she was excited and as she was starting her craft she happily yelled "good-bye" to Joe.  I know she would have loved to do preschool this year, but knowing I'd have to be on bedrest for awhile this fall and then having a new baby, we decided to just wait until next year.

Posing before the left (it was a bright sunny fall day!)...
 She came home with lots of crafts!  Amazing how many they can make in 2 1/2 hours:). The theme was pumpkins and I guess they read pumpkin books, made pumpkin crafts, sang songs and had time to go on the swings:).  She was very excited to take her backpack to school even though it hardly had anything in it:).
 I told her I wanted a picture of her when she got home and Gibs excitedly posed nicely right by her and happily said "cheese" and then she didn't want to smile.  Normally she's always happy to pose for pictures!  So she got cut off this one for not wanting to participate:).
That then made her want to smile too:)...
 

Sunday, October 9, 2011

Pumpkin Fun

Layla had fun painting one of our pumpkins today.  Joe drew the face on and first she was staying in the lines, and then decided not to:).  Artistic freedom I guess:).  She also decided he needed ears but changed her mind in where she wanted them so he has, I think, 6 ears:).
The lovely finished product...
 A few days ago she had fun painting these pumpkins with glitter glue...
 And this afternoon she really wanted to carve a pumpkin, but basically Joe ended up carving it himself:).  She got bored after a bit.
 We lit the pumpkin just before bedtime (which explains Gibs' outfit:) ) and the kids loved it!

Thursday, October 6, 2011

31 Weeks

I'm 31 weeks now and doing well--just uncomfortable, but thankful to be doing well and most importantly that baby is doing well.  I had my 31 week appointment and the baby's heartbeat was in the 150s which is pretty much where it is every time.  We are now not sure of a boy or girl name (we had a girl's name but changed our mind and have never been real set on a boy's name), so hopefully we've got lots of time before baby comes to make a decision! 

This is when I was pregnant with Layla at 31 weeks (I think like a day or so before she was born)...
 And here's with Gibs at around 31/32 weeks...
And here's now at 31 weeks...I think I keep getting bigger each time:(.  Good thing this is the final one:).
And one of the kids just chillin' and reading in Gibs' room...